I offer you a safe, confidential therapeutic space in which to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
In this space, we work collaboratively to find deeper understandings of your situation. I draw on a range of psychotherapeutic approaches to offer you support that is tailored to your needs. This includes an approach of my own design: Connected State Therapy; as well as Humanistic Psychotherapy, Mindfulness, and practical coaching techniques.One-to-One Psychotherapy
For individuals who wish to bring about deep transformation in a safe and gentle way.
Central to my approach to psychotherapy is attention to your internal state. I call this approach Connected State Therapy.
I use mindfulness techniques, sound immersions, and somatic tools to bring about changes in your neurology and nervous system function.
This soft, self-connected state supports rich personal exploration, and lends us access to work on the subconscious level. By working with talking therapy on the subconscious level, we can identify, interrupt, and reprogram the adaptations, core beliefs, and deeply ingrained neural pathways that constitute the way we experience and interact with the world.
This approach may be supportive to you if you experience:
- Anxiety or stress
- Depression
- Low confidence
- Unprocessed or historical trauma, or PTSD
- Overwhelm
- A general feeling of “stuckness”
- Relationship difficulties
- Creativity blocks
- Sleep difficulties or disorders
- Chronic pain
- Dementia or neurological issues
Or indeed if you are simply curious to explore and grow.
This approach is gentle, safe, trauma informed, and appropriate for all ages.
I have developed a particular protocol for working with children who suffer from anxiety. Please get in touch to discuss.
Is Psychotherapy For Me?
Working with a skilled psychotherapist is one of the most empowering things you can do.
For many, the hardest part is taking that first step of booking in and attending the first appointment. This may be due to some common misunderstandings about what therapy is, as well as the sense that it represents a jump into the unknown. If this resonates with you, please be assured that in the course of that first appointment, all preconceptions will be shed and you will wonder why you didn’t begin sooner.
Psychotherapy is a process of liberation. I provide you with a safe, confidential, judgement-free space in which you can express and explore the themes, events, and dynamics in your life. Collaboratively, we identify and work through areas of your life and experience where awareness, processing, or change would increase your sense of presence, happiness, fulfillment, peace, positive interactions, and positive experiences.
This is something that everybody can benefit from, in any circumstance, at any stage of life.
Gong Meditation
Joining a ReShape gong bath will make available to you a deeply relaxed, meditative state. Many people find it difficult to meditate, but in the course of this gong bath, the process of the evening and the sound of the gong will take you there.
Your brainwaves will drop into Theta frequency (4-7.5Hz) – this is the realm of your subconscious mind. These waves are present during deep meditation and light sleep, including the REM dream state. They offer a sense of deep spiritual connection and oneness with the Universe.
You may then drop deeper into Delta frequency (0.5-4Hz) – the realm of your unconscious mind. These are the slowest brain waves and are present in deep, dreamless sleep and in very deep meditation where awareness is completely detached. Delta is associated with deep healing and regeneration.
So without any effort on your behalf (other than presence and willingness) and before you know it, you will have spent an extended period in deep meditation. There are countless benefits to be sought from having spent time in this state – to summarise in short, a better functioning body and mind.
Sound/Vibrational Therapy
There is nothing solid in the universe, just tiny pockets of vibrating energy – atoms. Vibration is the substance of creation. When all of the molocules that comprise our body vibrate freely at their optimum frequencies, our body is in harmony and energy flows. We flow. When vibrational energy is disrupted – due to stress, illness, inflammation, electro-magnetic radiation or other factors – energy blockages arise and things become much harder for us physically and mentally. Entrainment is the process by which a frequency will cause another to gradually to fall into synchrony with it. By setting the right conditions and working with vibrations – the sound of the gong – we can bring your body back into resonance and harmony. Anyone interested in “energy” will appreciate the gong as a powerful instrument of multidimensional change.
Sound Journeying
Having your attention drawn to sound for an extended period of time declutters the mind, clears emotional blockages, and helps alleviate physical aches and pains. But there is more to the sound journey than that. We have a deeply intimate experience with sound – it is the first sense we experience, long before the others, in our mother’s womb. The comforting low beating of the heart, and the soothing vibrations from murmering voices. So the third way in which our gong baths create connection, grounding, and movement in you is through the rich and focused sound experience itself.
What Do Clients Say?
Psychotherapy is a deeply personal experience and it’s best to come with presence, free from expectation. However, to give you a flavour of the kind of feedback I receive, here are some reflections that clients have chosen to share publicly (please know that everything is confidential unless you specifically state otherwise)
We attended one of Joe's workshops in a beautiful garden. It was outstanding...the gong bath was magical. I would thoroughly recommend.
Joe is an excellent guide and has helped me over the years arrive gently at a place of deeper understanding when I have faced a block in the road. I trust his knowledge, kindness and deep understanding of the human condition and recommend him to any searching for clarity.
As for the gong bath, these are a particular favourite of mine, however I have found that it depends on the sound frequency of the gongs and how they are used. Your gongs however and how they were used, for me, especially resonated which was a joy and a delight. I was completely lost in the experience and was floating above the clouds, much like certain birds do when they find a thermal!
Couldn't recommend more! Working with Joe has totally transformed my life - I felt safe and heard for the first time in my life! Thank you Joe
Joe offers a beautifully unique warm safe space by simply being in his presence. His ability to listen and get to the source of what is troubling is swift, offering simple timely techniques into daily life offering immediate results. it is an honour to spend time with him.
I have attended an online gong meditation session. I have to be honest, I was super sceptical. I practise meditation and I wondered why gongs would be useful and how on earth they would work over zoom. Wow! It was wonderful. I loved the skilfully created sound of the gongs and Joe's gentle guidance. It's unique, calming and totally blissful.
Thank you for your wonderful event last Wednesday. The sound of the gongs was totally astounding and transported me to a different level of consciousness.
The gong session was spectacular, I melted, I was more energy than form and that in itself was a beautiful release. It was a very special experience and I look forward to hopefully being able to make the next one. I thoroughly enjoyed your energy and you compassionate flexible and gentle guidance of the group, you have a true gift.
I’m a self confessed workaholic - stress head - with childhood trauma. I had lost a lot of confidence over the years and found staying in with a bottle of wine was the easiest and safest place for me until I embarked on a journey of change with Joe at ReShape Life. At first I was a little nervous, anxious, sceptical and didn’t really know what to expect, I must admit the 1st few sessions were a little difficult to relax and let myself open up to the process but once I got over the initial feelings, thoughts, anxiousness etc I started to become more comfortable and relaxed. I was opening up more, letting my feelings out, as time went on I was becoming more centred and balanced, I even had a very spiritual and life changing experience which has literally changed my life for the better! Joe has guided me through so many issues, given me the tools to be able to deal with the things which were creating the blockages in my life, helped me to understand and love myself more, I have become a different person. Now looking forward to what life now brings, I want to experience more, diving deeper into myself, my anxiety is almost nonexistent and the world around me feels much more connected. Joe has really opened my eyes and I can’t thank him enough! This is certainly something everyone should try with an open mind as you never know it might just work! It 100% did for me. Thank you Joe
I feel more whole. Less in my head and more in touch with myself. Much more clear about things in my life, and calmer.
Joe is a wonderful therapist and a skilful listener who succeeds at creating a compassionate and non-judgemental space for you to address issues that are troubling you and work together with you to understand better and become more aware of your states of mind or patterns of behaviour. Highly recommended.
I've been amazed by my sessions. I have been to therapists before and it always took a lot out of me. I felt raw and stripped back and it would take me the week to recover, and then it would start again at my next session. So I would stop going. I know I need help though. I found Joe and booked feeling very unsure. I have been amazed by my sessions so far. It is the opposite of my previous experiences. I leave the sessions feeling like a weight has been lifted. Lighter, happier, and much clearer about everything.
I cannot recommend Joe highly enough. He has a beautiful, soothing, calming energy and his gong playing is exquisite. He is a very easy person to open up to, knowing that you will be supported and listened to without judgement.
Book Your Appointment
Here you can engage with a live diary and book yourself an appointment for talking therapies. You will receive a confirmation email upon booking. Please note that appointments are only confirmed upon receipt of the payment.